“Would you rather big a big fish in a little pond, or a
little fish in a big pond?” Tomoko would prefer the latter. Here are some examples
why.
Tomoko auditioned to get into the prestigious Ferris Academy,
a private school established in 1870 by the Dutch Reformed Church as the first
higher learning institution for girls. Tomoko worked to get decent grades to be
as good as her classmates in academics, and was pleased to accompany the school’s
chorus.
Likewise, Tomoko chose the University of Tokyo because it
was the best university for music. “Always strive for the best” Especially
since her parents thought that whatever one pursued, it should be done well. The
university had 500 applicants; after four days of auditioning, Tomoko was
accepted along with only 17 others.
When Tomoko emigrated from Japan to continue her musical
studies and career, she had to start over again in a new culture: with little
money and little English. Tomoko says, “The Conservatory is a good spot because
they have good basics and strong theory.” She continues, “You have to be smart
to play the piano; mediocre people get out.”
Upon graduation, she was asked to teach there.
At that time, she also competed professionally, both in
state and abroad. “I wanted to go to Europe; being accepted into these
international competitions was a big deal. I didn’t expect to be top.”
Tomoko challenges her students to do their best, and many
have succeeded well academically and professionally. Furthermore, her attitude
about working with the best people in top-notch settings applies to her
daughter Beata. Who competed in the Olympics ice dancing event.
Tomoko says, “Competition makes one strong.” And she
certainly swims well …
