May 19, 2022

Graduating Twice

 

Tomoko graduated twice from college: with a music bachelor’s degree from Tokyo National University and a music bachelor’s degree from San Francisco Conservatory of Music.

In 1961 Tomoko felt prepared for her graduation and a music career. She put on her best Western-style dress and gloves for her graduation, and stood in the front of her class, exemplifying a modern professional Japanese woman. Tomoko was proud that she earned her Bachelor of Arts degree with highest honors. Her parents’ declaration, that whatever one pursued it should be done well, was personified in Tomoko.

The next year, Tomoko immigrated to the United States, and started her musical study at the San Francisco Conservatory of Music.  Four years later, she graduated again. And Tomoko was not leaving the Conservatory; she had been asked to join as a faculty member: the first Asian and only the second woman!

The morning of that second graduation Tomoko dressed up again as she did for her first bachelor’s, but now proudly wore the traditional black graduation gown and four-cornered cap. She hurried to the Conservatory where the ceremony would soon commence. Tomoko actively listened to the welcoming speech and the various speakers. At the same time she kept her own performance time in the back of her mind. When her name was called during the ceremony, Tomoko took a deep breath, calmly strode to the piano, seated herself with aplomb, and raised her hands gracefully. Then her intelligence, her emotions and her muscle memory merged as she played as she meant to: a true professional. The warm applause confirmed her own feelings of pride for her double accomplishment.